How To Tell Someone They’re NOT Invited To Your Wedding

February 2nd, 2017

How to tell someone they’re not invited to your wedding is tricky. Very tricky. It all depends on how well you know them, what your relationship with them is and how they assumed they were invited! The last thing you need while planning a wedding is more stress. So, we’re here to help. We have come up with a little guide on how to tell someone they’re not invited to your wedding.

First things first, do you know who’s not invited to your wedding? When writing your guest list be sure that you have a defined list of who is invited and how many spaces may be ‘free’. This way when someone starts talking about how excited they are you don’t accidently say “Yes I can’t wait to see you there!”. This is especially common with friends of parents or distant relatives! The next obstacle is being delicate about the topic. You do not want anybody to feel like you don’t care about them, so here are a few scenarios…

CHARTULA BUTTERFLY KISS - not Invited To Your Wedding

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The 8 Different Types of Wedding Guests

October 22nd, 2015

On your big day being surrounded by all your family and friends is wonderful and makes you feel so full of love. However some of these wedding guests can be a tad…stressful to deal with. To help you, we have compiled a list of the main 8 types of wedding guests you will be sure to encounter. This way you can pre-empt and hopefully avoid!

selfie - wedding guests

The Selfie Obsessed

These particular wedding guests can be a real pain in the you know what. Constantly snapping photo’s of themsleves on your wedding day. If you’re really unlucky they’ll also bring a selfie stick. Time to get the maid of honour on selfie watch and nip any potentials in the bud before you see their phones in your photographs before you see them…

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Offer of the Month: 15% Off Table Plans

May 7th, 2015

We all know how expensive weddings can be and so here at Ivy Ellen we thought we would try and help ease the financial pain a little! We are going to post a brand new offer of the month every month! Each offer will be worth a great saving and will definitely help you save a penny or two for your big day. So, without further ado, May’s offer of the month is a fantastic 15% off table plans!

Eddie Judd Photography table plan

That’s right, you can save 15% on your wedding table plan, that’s a pretty little saving of about £30 – very helpful in the long run! All you need to do is simply enter the code above at the basket stage online. You can also email us to or call 0203 034 1200 for a customer order quote and present the code MAYPLAN to gain the discount. The discount runs until the end of May and cannot be used in conjunction with any other offers.


Below are the links to a few blogs that you might find helpful when looking at table plans! Enjoy!

5 Ways to Feature Your Table Plan

Top 10 Wedding Table Themes

The wonderful photograph used was taken by Eddie Judd Photography

We hope to see your order soon! Stephanie x